Thursday, March 11, 2010

Mississippi High School Cancels Prom

I never went to my senior prom, but members of this Mississippi senior class don't have the option to attend or to abstain. Undeniably, not allowing a lesbian couple to attend a prom is a violation of the couple's civil rights; nonetheless, couldn't the lesbian couple find some way around the school's policy without ruining prom for her whole class? For example, couldn't they both have gone stag(ette) or have friends take each of them as heterosexual dates. High school dances typically aren't about your "date" and more about the people you meet there or with whom you arrive....at least that's the way my high school dances were. Teens find ways around things all the time by bending the rules in their favor...why not here? Prom connotes the culmination of one's school days: where the awkward moments of adolescence feel like distant memories of the past, as you embark on a mono-mythical journey into adulthood, into your future. Why end your high school career by making a scene with the officials in what you know to be a strictly religious, conservative town? It sort of seems like McMillen was baiting the school board officials and it backfired on her big time.

3 comments:

Jim said...

http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/2010-03-12-no-prom-mississippi_N.htm

Looks like they'll probably have an alternate prom.

Prom is, um, fraught with cultural baggage and I don't get it. Matter of fact, it's a tradition that has mostly been taken over by the party-industrial complex. (limo, dinner out, hotel suite, weekend getaway at beach house, etc.) The party-industrial complex is also responsible for travesties like outlandishly elaborate weddings, groom's cakes, male engagement rings and the 3rd mortgages that are taken out to pay for all of this fun.

That being said, the school board did a cruddy thing by indirectly placing the blame on the students involved. Canceling prom is a dirty way of shifting responsibility. (or is it? I'm pretty sure it is.)

Vince said...

Jim,

Totally agree with your thoughts about prom and weddings. Why is it socially unacceptable to serve pizza rolls at a wedding?

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